Are you “just a mom?” I was ignoring that little voice inside me, telling me I wanted more. But I’m not anymore.
Just a Mom
We’ve all done it: made ourselves feel smaller.
My poison of choice: “I’m just a mom.”
At a party, in line waiting for something, any time there was small talk… Someone would eventually ask, “What do you do?” and each time I would reply, “I’m just a mom.”
Why the qualifier? Why did I have to say JUST and discount the work that I, and all moms, do?Why did I make myself smaller? Click To Tweet
A Lost Identity
I’m not sure if I had been saying for all 8 years I had been a mom or if this was something that came after baby #3. I realized I wasn’t sure about my own identity. I was a mom, but what else?
For as long as I can remember, I have tied my worth to my income earning potential. I babysat the kids across the street before I could drive, I worked through high school, through college, and throughout my first pregnancy.
Then I became a mom. A job that pays in cuddles, giggles, and lots and lots of messes. As happy as I was, I wanted more. And by more, I meant money and a purpose.
I didn’t just want money, I wanted to earn and contribute, to be a partner. My husband parented right alongside me, but he remained the sole earner. We both felt it was important that one of us stay home with the kids and he had the earning potential to support our family. So that’s what we did for several years.
But my need to have that contribution for self-worth never really left.
An Introduction to My Future
When my friend invited me to her Rodan+Fields business launch I went to be supportive, but knew I wasn’t interested. That changed when I saw this before and after photo of a mutual friend, Amy.
I would find a way to afford the products that gave these kind of results!
The Proof is as Clear as the Skin on My Face
A few months later, I ordered the products. My personal skin dilemma: I was pregnant and did not have that mother-to-be glow. After 3 summer pregnancies, my ever-worsening Melasma was affecting my confidence.
After getting my doctor’s approval, I began using Rodan+Fields and I noticed an immediate change in my skin! I could go on and on about the improvements, but this picture is proof.
A Confident, Contributing Entrepreneur is Born
After seeing my own results, I decided to jump into the business. Finding Rodan + Fields has helped me more ways than I ever thought possible.
- I have the greatest skin of my life.
- I’m able to bring in a residual income while staying home with the Smalls.
- I have gained self-confidence.
- I am helping others start their own businesses and gaining connections that fill more than just my need to contribute.
The Journey is Worth It
I am a mom first, but no longer need the “just.” I am a mom, wife, daughter, friend, volunteer, blogger, entrepreneur, and so much more. We are all so much more than we give ourselves credit for. Click To Tweet
Do you have a “Just”? Is there something that you have put on the back burner? Let me know in the comments.